In the past four years, “flight or fight” is the motto that Nikki Cross instilled in her two daughters in fighting numerous hurdles. Life became a whirlwind experience for Nikki Cross and her family. She has been in and out of hospitals with her two daughters Kayla and Kylee. When everything seemed to be spiraling downhill, Nikki along with her husband Kreg stayed strong for their two daughters.
Nikki struggled with her iron, so she was always envious when Kreg would go to the blood bank and donate. But when she found out her 12 year old daughter, Kylee, needed to undergo a scoliosis operation and needed to donate two pints of her own blood to use during her surgery, Nikki did what any mother would do, to be by her daughter’s side. Nikki wanted to make sure she was able to donate with Kylee and so she researched and found a way to alter her diet so she could pass her iron test. At Kylee’s second donation, Nikki was able to donate for the first time. Nikki wanted to show her daughters to never give up, “if you really want to help, you need to be persistent and alter your lifestyle because most things are fixable.”
Kayla, Nikki and Kylee at our Hearts United Blood Drive.
These past four years, Nikki found out she had Hypertrophic Cardiomyopathy, as does her 16 year old daughter, Kayla. Kayla also had a bone tumor last September. Kylee underwent a scoliosis surgery, and both Kayla and Kylee went through numerous reconstructive hip surgeries. In December, Nikki was diagnosed with diabetes, but she continued to donate. Nikki stayed strong for her daughters, “it has been a journey, but I tell my girls we can’t dwell on these experiences but what we can do is turn it around to help others.”
Now Nikki plans on becoming a platelet donor because she learned the vital need for platelet donations. She also added, “Kayla plans on donating blood in September and Kylee will be celebrating the one year anniversary of her blood drive on June 30,” said Nikki. Click here to find out more about Kylee’s 2nd Annual Scoliosis Strong Blood Drive.
Nikki enjoys spending time with her family and their 48 animals. She also enjoys watching Nascar racing. Every March they all travel to Fontana, CA to watch Nascar live. Nikki encourages others to donate, “it is important to give back and to help those who are in need. Giving money can’t save someone’s life in the hospital, but by donating blood or platelets you are giving that person another chance at life.”